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Tuesday, June 20, 2023

Nowhere for Very Long: the unexpected road to an unconventional life by Brianna Madia

In this beautifully written, vividly detailed memoir, a young woman chronicles her adventures in an orange van named Bertha traveling across the deserts of the American West and reflects on an unconventional way of life

A woman defined by motion, Brianna Madia bought a beat-up bright orange van, filled it with her two dogs Bucket and Dagwood, and headed into the canyons of Utah with her husband on a journey of discovery. Nowhere for Very Long is her story of exploration--of the world outside and the spirit within. From the backroads to the breakdowns, married to solo, lost to found, it is the chronicle of a woman in the wild, learning and unlearning.

Brianna knew her road would be the one less traveled from an early age. Rejecting the competitive and capitalistic path set out before her, she chose to seek a truer version of happiness, a road scary, uncertain, and entirely her own. But pursing a life of intention isn't always what it seems. In fact, at times it was downright boring, exhausting, lonely, and even desperate----when the van overheated and she was forced to pull over on a lonely stretch of Wyoming highway; when the weather was bitterly cold and the water jugs froze beneath her we she slept in the parking lot of her office; when she faced tough choices, hard truths, and inevitable regrets; when she worried about money, her marriage, and the looming question mark of her future. But this life was a life of her choosing and that made all the difference.

Nowhere for Very Long isn't about extreme minimalism or tiny house living or #VanLife. It's about cherishing the moment and being a woman living a life true to herself, come what may.


260 pages (April 2022)
 
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Title Read-alikes: The Change: My Great American, Postindustrial, Midlife Crisis Tour by Lori Soderlind; Windswept: Walking the Paths of Trailblazing Women by Annabel Abbs; That wild country: An Epic Journey Through the Past, Present, and Future of America's Public Lands by Mark Kenyon;  Bowing to Elephants: Tales of a Travel Junkie by Mag Dimond; Alone Time by Stephanie Rosenbloom; Tales of a Female Nomad: Living at Large in the World by Rita Golden Gelman; I Have Something to Tell You: a Memoir by Natalie Appleton; Bewildered by Laura Waters; Fly Girl: a Memoir by Ann Hood; Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad; Left on Tenth: A Second Chance at Life: A Memoir by Delia Ephron; Tracks: a Woman's Solo Trek across 1,700 Miles of Australian Outback by Robyn Davidson; and Arabian Sands by Wilfred Thesiger.

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

Stranger Care: a memoir of loving what isn't ours by Sarah Sentilles

After their decision not to have a biological child, Sarah Sentilles and her husband, Eric, decide to adopt via the foster care system. Despite knowing that the system's goal is reunification with the birth family, Sarah opens their home to a flurry of social workers who question, evaluate, and ultimately prepare them to welcome a child into their family--even if it means most likely having to give them back. After years of starts and stops, and endless navigation of the complexities and injustices of the foster care system, a phone call finally comes: a three-day old baby girl, named Coco, in immediate need of a foster family. Sarah and Eric bring this newborn stranger home.

"You were never ours," Sarah tells Coco, "yet we belong to each other."

A love letter to Coco, and to the countless children like her, Stranger Care chronicles Sarah's discovery of what it means to mother--in this case, not just a vulnerable infant, but the birth mother who loves her, too. Ultimately, Coco's story reminds us that we depend on family, and that family can take different forms. With "fearless, stirring, rhythmic" (Nick Flynn) prose, Sentilles lays bare an intimate, powerful story, with universal concerns: How can we care for and protect each other? How do we ensure a more hopeful future for life on this planet? And if we're all related--tree, bird, star, person--how might we better live?

404 pages (May 2021)

 
 
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Sarah Sentilles introduces Stranger Care (from Text Publishing):


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Title Read-alikes: Rock Needs River: a memoir of a very open adoption by Vanessa McGrady; A Love-Stretched Life: stories on wrangling hope, embracing the unexpected, and discovering the meaning of family by Jilana Goble; Intertwined: a mother's memoir by Kathleen English Cadmus; The Girl in the Red Boots: making peace with my mother by Judith Ruskay Rabinor; You Carried Me: a daughter's memoir by Melissa Ohden; American Baby: a mother, a child, and the shadow history of adoption by Gabrielle Glaser; When the Bough Breaks: true stories of hope and encouragement of mothers who have had to reinvent their relationships with their children by Nancy Ferraro; Don't You Ever: my mother and her secret son by Mary Carter Bishop; Raising Abel by Carolyn Nash; Little Bandaged Days by Kyra Wilder; House of Sticks: a memoir by Ly Tran; Another Place at the Table by Kathy Harrison; and Why Didn't You Tell Me?: a memoir by Carmen Rita Wong.

Monday, November 14, 2022

Inheritance: a memoir of genealogy, paternity, and love by Dani Shapiro

A new memoir about identity, paternity, and family secrets--a real-time exploration of the staggering discovery Shapiro recently made about her father, and her struggle to piece together the hidden story of her own life.

What makes us who we are? What combination of memory, history, biology, experience, and that ineffable thing called the soul defines us?

In the spring of 2016, through a genealogy website to which she had whimsically submitted her DNA for analysis, Dani Shapiro received the stunning news that her father was not her biological father. She woke up one morning and her entire history--the life she had lived--crumbled beneath her.

Inheritance is a book about secrets--secrets within families, kept out of shame or self-protectiveness; secrets we keep from one another in the name of love. It is the story of a woman's urgent quest to unlock the story of her own identity, a story that has been scrupulously hidden from her for more than fifty years, years she had spent writing brilliantly, and compulsively, on themes of identity and family history. It is a book about the extraordinary moment we live in--a moment in which science and technology have outpaced not only medical ethics but also the capacities of the human heart to contend with the consequences of what we discover.

Timely and unforgettable, Dani Shapiro's memoir is a gripping, gut-wrenching exploration of genealogy, paternity, and love.

247 pages (January 2019)

 
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Dani Shapiro answers your questions (PBS NewsHour):


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Title Read-alikes: Before My Time: a memoir of love and fate by Ami McKay; The Forgetting River: a modern tale of survival, identity, and the Inquisition by Doreen Carvajal; Go Ask Your Father: one man's obsession with finding his origins through DNA testing by Lennard J. Davis; Wild Game: my mother, her secret, and me by Adrienne Brodeur; Futureface: a family mystery, a search for identity, and the truth about belonging by Alex Wagner; When I Was White: a memoir by Sarah Valentine; Aftershocks: a memoir by Nadia Owusu; Why Didn't You Tell Me?: a memoir by Carmen Rita Wong; The Family Outing: a memoir by Jessi Hempel; Unorthodox: the scandalous rejection of my Hasidic roots by Deborah Feldman; Necessary Lies by Diane Chamberlain; A Happy Marriage by Rafael Yglesias; and The Tiny One by Eliza Minot.

Tuesday, November 8, 2022

In Order to Live: a North Korean girl's journey to freedom by Yeonmi Park

Human rights activist Park, who fled North Korea with her mother in 2007 at age 13 and eventually made it to South Korea two years later after a harrowing ordeal, recognized that in order to be "completely free," she had to confront the truth of her past. It is an ugly, shameful story of being sold with her mother into slave marriages by Chinese brokers, and although she at first tried to hide the painful details when blending into South Korean society, she realized how her survival story could inspire others. Moreover, her sister had also escaped earlier and had vanished into China for years, prompting the author to go public with her story in the hope of finding her sister.

Yeonmi Park has told the harrowing story of her escape from North Korea as a child many times, but never before has she revealed the most intimate and devastating details of the repressive society she was raised in and the enormous price she paid to escape.

Park’s family was loving and close-knit, but life in North Korea was brutal, practically medieval. Park would regularly go without food and was made to believe that, Kim Jong Il, the country’s dictator, could read her mind. After her father was imprisoned and tortured by the regime for trading on the black-market, a risk he took in order to provide for his wife and two young daughters, Yeonmi and her family were branded as criminals and forced to the cruel margins of North Korean society. With thirteen-year-old Park suffering from a botched appendectomy and weighing a mere sixty pounds, she and her mother were smuggled across the border into China.

273 pages (September 2015)

 
 
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Yeonmi Park's North Korean Defector Story (ReasonTV):


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Title Read-alikes: A River in Darkness: one man's escape from North Korea by Masaji Ishikawa; Dear Leader: poet, spy, escapee-- a look inside North Korea by Jin-sung Jang; Escaping North Korea: defiance and hope in the world's most repressive country by Mike Kim; The Girl with Seven Names: a North Korean defector's story by Hyeonseo Lee; The Last Girl: my story of captivity, and my fight against the Islamic State by Nadia Murad; Stars Between the Sun and Moon: one woman's life in North Korea and escape to freedom by Lucia Jang; Escape from Camp 14: one man's remarkable odyssey from North Korea to freedom in the West by Blaine Harden; The Prisoner by Hwang Sok-yong; Refugee by Emmanuel Mbolela; A Thousand Miles to Freedom: My Escape from North Korea by Eunsun Kim; Without You, There Is No Us: My Time with the Sons of North Korea's Elite by Suki Kim; Long Road Home: Testimony of a North Korean Camp Survivor by Yong Kim;  and Raif Badawi, The Voice of Freedom: My Husband, Our Story by Ensaf Haidar.

Wednesday, November 2, 2022

The Smallest Lights in the Universe by Sara Seager

In this luminous memoir, an MIT astrophysicist must reinvent herself in the wake of tragedy and discovers the power of connection on this planet, even as she searches our galaxy for another Earth.

Sara Seager has always been in love with the stars: so many lights in the sky, so much possibility. Now a pioneering planetary scientist, she searches for exoplanets—especially that distant, elusive world that sustains life. But with the unexpected death of Seager's husband, the purpose of her own life becomes hard for her to see. Suddenly, at forty, she is a widow and the single mother of two young boys. For the first time, she feels alone in the universe.

As she struggles to navigate her life after loss, Seager takes solace in the alien beauty of exoplanets and the technical challenges of exploration. At the same time, she discovers earthbound connections that feel every bit as wondrous, when strangers and loved ones alike reach out to her across the space of her grief. Among them are the Widows of Concord, a group of women offering advice on everything from home maintenance to dating, and her beloved sons, Max and Alex. Most unexpected of all, there is another kind of one-in-a-billion match, not in the stars but here at home.

Probing and invigoratingly honest, The Smallest Lights in the Universe is its own kind of light in the dark.

308 pages (August 2020)

 
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Sara Seager on CTV Your Morning:


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Title Read-alikes: The Disordered Cosmos: a journey into dark matter, spacetime, and dreams deferred by Chandra Prescod-Weinstein; Lab Girl by Hope Jahren; The Inward Empire: mapping the wilds of mortality and fatherhood by Christian Donian; Wired for Love: a neuroscientist's journey through romance, loss, and the essence of human connection by Stephanie Cacioppo; I Have Been Buried Under Years of Dust: a memoir of autism and hope by Valerie Gilpeer; Mother Brain: how neuroscience is rewriting the story of parenthood by Chelsea Conaboy; The Perpetual Now: a story of amnesia, memory, and love by Michael D Lemonick; Little Matches: a memoir of grief and light by Maryanne O'Hara; The Seasons of My Mother: a memoir of love, family, and flowers by Marcia Gay Harden; Nothing Was the Same by Kay Redfield Jamison; Unreliable Truth: on memoir and memory by Maureen Murdock; My Stroke of Insight: a brain scientist's personal journey by Jill Bolte Taylor; and Until I Say Good-Bye: my year of living with joy by Susan Spencer-Wendel.

Friday, February 4, 2022

Fault Lines: A Novel by Emily Itami

Combining the incisive intimacy of Sally Rooney with the sharp wit of Helen Fielding, a compulsively readable and astonishingly relatable debut novel about marriage, motherhood, love, self and the vibrant, surprising city that is modern Tokyo

Mizuki is a Japanese housewife. She has a hardworking husband, two adorable children and a beautiful Tokyo apartment. It’s everything a woman could want, yet sometimes she wonders whether she would rather throw herself off the high-rise balcony than spend another evening not talking to her husband and hanging up laundry.

Then, one rainy night, she meets Kiyoshi, a successful restaurateur. In him, she rediscovers freedom, friendship and the neon, electric pulse of the city she has always loved. But the further she falls into their relationship, the clearer it becomes that she is living two lives --- and in the end, we can choose only one.

Funny, provocative and startlingly honest, Fault Lines is for anyone who has ever looked in the mirror and asked, Who am I, and how did I get here? A bittersweet love story and a piercing portrait of female identity, it introduces Emily Itami as a debut novelist with astounding resonance and wit.

216 pages (September 2021)

 
 
 
 
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Bookclubs IG Live Interview with Emily Itami:


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Title Read-alikes: Breasts and Eggs by Mieko Kawakami; The Expatriates by Janice Y. K. Lee; My Year of Meats by Ruth Ozeki; Alternate Side by Anna Quindlen; Good Company by Cynthia D'aprix Sweeney; Want by Lynn Steger Strong; Regrets Only by Erin Duffy; Trying by Emily Phillips; No Regrets by Tabitha Webb; Hausfrau by Jill Alexander Essbaum; The Final Revival of Opal & Nev by Dawnie Walton; The Reading List by Sara Nisha Adams; and We Are Not Like Them by Christine Pride.

Monday, February 10, 2020

Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah

#1 New York Times Bestseller• The compelling, inspiring, and comically sublime story of one man's coming-of-age, set during the twilight of apartheid and the tumultuous days of freedom that followed.

Named one of the best books of the year by Michiko Kakutani, New York TimesUSA Today • San Francisco Chronicle • NPR • Esquire • Newsday • Booklist

Trevor Noah's unlikely path from apartheid South Africa to the desk of The Daily Show began with a criminal act: his birth. Trevor was born to a white Swiss father and a black Xhosa mother at a time when such a union was punishable by five years in prison. Living proof of his parents' indiscretion, Trevor was kept mostly indoors for the earliest years of his life, bound by the extreme and often absurd measures his mother took to hide him from a government that could, at any moment, steal him away. Finally liberated by the end of South Africa's tyrannical white rule, Trevor and his mother set forth on a grand adventure, living openly and freely and embracing the opportunities won by a centuries-long struggle.

Born a Crime is the story of a mischievous young boy who grows into a restless young man as he struggles to find himself in a world where he was never supposed to exist. It is also the story of that young man's relationship with his fearless, rebellious, and fervently religious mother—his teammate, a woman determined to save her son from the cycle of poverty, violence, and abuse that would ultimately threaten her own life.

The stories collected here are by turns hilarious, dramatic, and deeply affecting. Whether subsisting on caterpillars for dinner during hard times, being thrown from a moving car during an attempted kidnapping, or just trying to survive the life-and-death pitfalls of dating in high school, Trevor illuminates his curious world with an incisive wit and unflinching honesty. His stories weave together to form a moving and searingly funny portrait of a boy making his way through a damaged world in a dangerous time, armed only with a keen sense of humor and a mother's unconventional, unconditional love.

304 pages (November 2016)


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Thursday, May 23, 2019

Educated: a memoir by Tara Westover

An unforgettable memoir about a young girl who, kept out of school, leaves her survivalist family and goes on to earn a PhD from Cambridge University.

Tara Westover was seventeen the first time she set foot in a classroom.

Born to survivalists in the mountains of Idaho, she prepared for the end of the world by stockpiling home-canned peaches and sleeping with her “head-for-the-hills” bag. In the summer she stewed herbs for her mother, a midwife and healer, and in the winter she salvaged metal in her father’s junkyard.

Her father distrusted the medical establishment, so Tara never saw a doctor or nurse. Gashes and concussions, even burns from explosions, were all treated at home with herbalism. The family was so isolated from mainstream society that there was no one to ensure the children received an education, and no one to intervene when an older brother became violent.

When another brother got himself into college and came back with news of the world beyond the mountain, Tara decided to try a new kind of life. She taught herself enough mathematics, grammar, and science to take the ACT and was admitted to Brigham Young University.

There, she studied psychology, politics, philosophy, and history, learning for the first time about pivotal world events like the Holocaust and the Civil Rights Movement. Her quest for knowledge transformed her, taking her over oceans and across continents, to Harvard and to Cambridge University.

Only then would she wonder if she’d traveled too far, if there was still a way home.

Educated is an account of the struggle for self-invention. It is a tale of fierce family loyalty, and of the grief that comes from severing one’s closest ties.

With the acute insight that distinguishes all great writers, Westover has crafted a universal coming-of-age story that gets to the heart of what an education is and what it offers: the perspective to see one’s life through new eyes, and the will to change it.

334 pages. (February 2018)


 
 
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Title Read-alikes: The Only Girl in the World by Maude Julien; The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls; River House by Sarahlee Lawrence; The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah; Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens; If the Creek Don't Rise by Rita Williams; North of Normal by Cea Sunrise Person; Fun Home by Alison Bechdel; Hollywood Park Mikel Jollett; and The Unwinding of the Miracle by Julie Yip-Williams.

Thursday, August 2, 2018

I Found My Tribe: a memoir by Ruth Fitzmaurice

A transformative, euphoric memoir about finding solace in the unexpected for readers of H is for Hawk, It's Not Yet Dark, and When Breath Becomes Air.

Ruth's tribe are her lively children and her filmmaker and author husband Simon Fitzmaurice who has ALS and can only communicate with his eyes. Ruth's other "tribe" are the friends who gather at the cove in Greystones, Co. Wicklow, and regularly throw themselves into the freezing cold water, just for kicks.

The Tragic Wives' Swimming Club, as they jokingly call themselves, meet to cope with the extreme challenges life puts in their way, not to mention the monster waves rolling over the horizon. Swimming is just one of the daily coping strategies as Ruth fights to preserve the strong but now silent connection with her husband. As she tells the story of their marriage, from diagnosis to their long-standing precarious situation, Ruth also charts her passion for swimming in the wild Irish Sea--culminating in a midnight swim under the full moon on her wedding anniversary.

An invocation to all of us to love as hard as we can, and live even harder, I Found My Tribe is an urgent and uplifting letter to a husband, family, friends, the natural world, and the brightness of life.

213 pages (March 2018)


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Ruth Fitzmaurice discusses the first time she showed the manuscript to her husband:

Title Read-alikes: The Journal of Best Practices by David Finch; The Vow by Kim Carpenter; Beauty in the Broken Places by Allison Pataki; Until I Say Good-Bye by Susan Spencer-Wendel; Wondering Who You Are by Sonya Lea; Jan's Story by Barry Petersen; Everybody's Got Something by Robin Roberts; The Bright Hour by Nina Riggs; The Cookie Cure by Susan Stachler; The Smallest Lights in the Universe by Sara Seager; Late in the Day by Tessa Hadley; After the Silence by Louise O'Neill; and Elsewhere by Rosita Boland.